One of you plans the entire evening. The other one knows nothing until it starts.That's the whole idea, and it works because the best bit of a night in isn't the food or the film. It's not having to decide.How it worksThe planner picks everything. What you eat, what you watch, what time it starts. The other person gets told one thing only, and that's when to be on the sofa.Three rules that make it work: Set a budget first. £15/$15 is plentyThe person being taken out doesn't get a vote. Not even a small oneSwap next time. It only works if you both get to be surprised

Why it landsNobody has planned a whole evening for you since you were about eleven. It hits harder than it sounds.Who's doing the planning in your house? Tag them so they know it's their turn 👇